Low light, good music and a plan that leaves room for the night to become better than the itinerary.
Do not stack reservations.
A seven-thirty table followed by a nine-fifteen bar booking turns a date into airport logistics. Reserve dinner if you need to. Choose the second place because it is close, not because a list told you it is essential.
Make hearing each other part of the brief.
The useful question is not whether a room is romantic. Ask whether the music sits under the conversation, whether the tables give you a little space and whether nobody is rushing you out.
End somewhere that asks nothing of you.
A short walk, a stool at an old counter or one last drink around the corner is usually better than another headline destination. The best final stop feels found, even when you quietly looked it up first.
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